Grief is an integral part of almost everyones life. Whenever you go through the loss of a near and dear one, you go through a grief process. Grief is experienced physically and psychologically. Crying is an integral part of grief process. In cultures where crying is acceptable, loss is borne more readily than in those in which crying is discouraged.

When we have lost a near and dear one, it is initially difficult to accept the loss. This is natural. As time passes, the loss becomes easier to bear from a psychological perspective. But emotional expression is still an integral part of grieving. If the person is not allowed to grieve due to societal or family pressures, other problems like depression or anxiety may arise. From Natures perspective, once someone has died, it is important that the(unconscious) mind accepts the loss. Once the unconscious mind accepts the loss after going through crying and sadness , life becomes easier.

A simple exercise will bring benefit to all those who want to deal with grief of a loved one.

Exercise: Close your eyes and imagine seeing the lost loved one in front of you. Talk to the person in your mind as if the person was standing in front of you. Treat the image as a real person. Having finished saying what you would like to say, bid the person GOODBYE and see the person go. You will notice feeling like crying or feeling sad.

Do this exercise everyday at least once, preferably before sleeping, till you start to feel comfortable seeing the person go. By that time your sadness will have reduced to a remarkable extent. This exercise can save you many months of counseling and a lot of money if done as advised.

Pradeep Chadha

Born and brought up in India, Pradeep has spent last many years of his life learning and working in Europe. He is able to blend the spirituality from the East with the intellect from the West to help bring about changes in people's lives with and without medication. He initially trained as a physician in India. In Ireland he got training in psychiatry and hypnosis.When psychotherapy was considered quackery, he set up his practice in Dublin. Now many years later, he is still ahead of his time as psychotherapy has become a recognised part of psychiatric services. He has presented many original papers in international conferences. He has been published in mostly alternative therapy journals. He has appeared on radio and television. He is the author of The Stress Barrier- Nature's Way to Overcoming Stress published by Blackhall Publishing, Dublin.