Youve probably come across the famous line from Emerson saying that our fondest wish is someone who will make us do what we can do. Perhaps, but most of us experience a hangover of negativity when we feel were being MADE to do anything. Compulsion and freedom dont make friendly companions. Still, we need to get things done, to get off the dime, to make progress and definitely, to break out of procrastination. In a word we need inspiration. One of the best ways to get it is to practice inspiring others, and here are some tips for doing it: (1) Stay visibly occupied. People are imitators, and when they see youre busy, suddenly, theyll get an urge to place that languishing, but important phone call to the dentist to set that teeth cleaning appointment. (2) Smile. Nearly every one, apart from the Gothic Rocker your teenager is dating, wants to be happy. When they ask whats making you so happy, just say, I dont know, and get back to number one, staying busy! (3) Never complain, unless that is, youre at deaths door, and then do it politely. Dont pity yourself, or join other peoples pity parties. If they say, Life sucks! respond with Okay! and get back to number one! (4) Stay focused on results, not getting hung up on minutia. Youll accomplish a lot, without fanfare, and people will admire you and want to emulate you. When they ask, How do you get so much done? just say, I dont know with a big smile, and get back to number one! (5) Dont ever volunteer advice. The worst way to try to change someone is by trying to change someone. Lead by example, and if you ever forget how to do this, just go back to number one! Stick to this plan and youll be an inspiration to everybody, including yourself! |