Its only a few weeks into the New Year and all those goals and resolutions you wanted for yourself are already slipping away. One of two things is happening: Either you simply never got started, or youre running out of steam. Not getting started is common. Even with all the great enthusiasm and excitement we had about the year, the diversion of the holidays and then just trying to get back into our normal routines didnt allow us to incorporate our new goals into our old schedules. The goals we initially set now seem too difficult to know where to start. Simply put, we are busy and distracted by the overall tasks of our lives. Dont worry. There is always tomorrow or next year. The other common element to resolution failure is burn out. It is comically predictable, but have you ever noticed the level of activity the first week of January? Go to any gym and you will see it packed. In fact, January 1st and 2nd are two of the busiest days in gym attendance. Weight loss groups, dating sites, financial planners, career advisors, and support groups all report high activity the first week of January. Everyone wants to get in shape, lose weight, meet someone, get a better job, save money, quit smoking, quit drinking and more. So we start out the year no holds barred and go for it! Unfortunately the results we want dont come as fast as our initial enthusiasm and when we dont see quick changes we lose our motivation. As the weeks go by the crowds disappear and soon everything is back to normal activity levels as we all slip back into our routines. Then we stay there until another failed attempt next January. The result is that 2006 will be yet another year you failed to achieve the changes you wanted. The New Year motivates us to start, but we need to develop a habit of successful behavior. As Jim Ryan put it, Motivation is what gets us started. Habit is what keeps us going. You can develop success habits and remedy lack of or diminished motivation with a life coach technique called ABC. A = Action. Start taking action today. We dont achieve change through thinking about it, but by doing something. B = Bite size. Reduce all your new activities to small daily actions. It truly is amazing how doing something small doesnt overwhelm us and produces amazing results. When we take on too much we either dont start or cant keep it up. Work out 10 minutes a day; send out one resume a day, save a little money every day and the results will materialize over time. C = Consistency. Through the accumulation of small actions, we get big results. Do your bite size action activities daily! We all want big changes, but literally think about the change in your pocket. We have all taken our daily change and placed it in a container of some sort. Before long, that pile of nickels and dimes had grown to several dollars. If you want to produce real changes, concentrate on the ABC Success Habits. Get into action today with small bite size activities consistently and before you know it, youll be going to the bank at the end of 2006 with a sizable deposit of results. |
