Many times during a coaching session or in an email a man will ask me if he does such and such technique on a woman doesn't he risk offending some women or at the very least having her get upset? I then tell them that they are absolutely positively correct. Most seduction techniques at least the good ones accomplish two things first they create attraction in women who are wanting it and it completely annoys, irritates, humiliates, or any other not good thing to a woman who doesn't like you. Now you can continue to not offend women and waste your time with those women who aren't going to give you what you want and at the same time destroy the attraction with women who wanted to be attracted to you or you can use the techniques and achieve the outcomes that you want. When you use any type of effective technique a woman is either going to like it or not. Women who like it have a choice when you use your seduction techniques on them they can either accept it and keep going along with you and allow you to achieve your outcome rather easily or they can pretend not to accept it and see how you react. When a woman pretends not to accept it they are using a female persuasion technique on you. The average nice guy when put to the test is going to fold and revert back to his old way. When you do this she now knows you really are not in control and can end the interaction because she now knows who you really are. Yet, if when she pretends not to accept it you maintain your reality she not only will perceive you to be a real man her attraction for you will increase as well. As for the women who are not pretending odds are they aren't looking for a man but rather a boy toy that they can control. A man who isn't in control of his reality with women is a man who rarely gets what he wants from a woman including sex and other favors. |
